Mum Debra hopes for more cancer breakthroughs
Debra Rice (44), a legal secretary from south Belfast, is a BRCA 1 carrier. She is married to Philip (47) and they have a daughter, Emma (8). She says,
“My dad’s two sisters died at a young age from breast and ovarian cancer so I’ve been attending a family history clinic at Belfast City Hospital for regular check-ups for the last nine years. As I got older I could feel the fear building before each appointment.
I was called back last August after a routine mammogram. I wasn’t overly concerned as this was the second time I’d had a call back.
I had more tests including an ultra sound and biopsy. The doctors thought there was something there which was later confirmed to be cancer.
It was totally out of the blue, an absolute shock. I hadn’t felt any lumps or bumps and was feeling fine. My oncologist assured me that it had been caught early – it was a very small 18mm tumour.
It was only at this point that I was tested for the BRCA 1 gene fault, which came back positive. I also had triple negative breast cancer, which is very common with BRCA.
I got the confirmation in September I had a double mastectomy in October followed by six cycles of chemotherapy. Last March I had a hysterectomy.
It was a lot to go through but I keep hold of the thought that the cancer was caught early. It was a huge boost to my morale when my pathology came back from the lab and my lymph nodes and other checks were very positive. I’m very, very fortunate.
Once I was a confirmed carrier the decision to have preventative surgery was a no-brainer. I had to do whatever was needed to get my risk of a recurrence as low as possible. It was always on my mind whether or not I had the gene but once I had cancer I wanted to move forward as quickly as possible.
I wasn’t most afraid of the mastectomy, I was fit and otherwise healthy and was confident I’d make a good recovery. I was able to pick Emma up from school less than a week after that surgery.
It was the chemo and losing my hair that was the big hurdle for me. It was just three weeks after my first cycle that my hair started coming out in clumps. I thought I couldn’t be doing with that so I went to my hairdresser and got it all shaved off. That was a big moment, that is when I really cried.
Perhaps it was just the last straw. And it’s like making a statement and everyone looking at you knows. I know most people sympathise with you but if you don’t like drawing attention to yourself it feels very public. I did get a very good wig, though, and that was a big help. My hair is now growing and I recently paid for my first cut at the hairdresser in almost a year.
In January I was well enough to be able to go back to work two days a week – my employer was extremely supportive, it wouldn’t have been possible without that.
I am feeling great. My surgery is very much in the past and I’m only looking forward – onwards and upwards.
Seven of my cousins have now been checked and only one has the gene, which is a very good outcome. I’m relieved so few of us are affected.
I had a great chat with the geneticists, my concern now is that I have an eight-year-old daughter. She has to be at least 18 before she can be tested as she has to take that decision herself. That is a conversation that we will have to have when she’s a bit older.
I’m obviously hoping that there will be new developments in research that will make her future a lot more positive. Information is power and I would urge everyone to back the Cancer Focus NI In Pink fundraising campaign to keep the money rolling in for research. This work saves lives so please be part of it!”