Sarah’s story
Sarah was lying in bed after a girl’s night out, chatting with friends about the highlights of the evening, when she happened to put her hand over her breast, and felt a lump. After visiting her GP, Sarah was sent for a biopsy and ultrasound and on the 24th of May 2023 she was diagnosed with breast cancer.
“It was completely surreal. I am young, healthy and have no history of cancer in my family, it was so hard to wrap my head around why this was happening to me. I think the first time I looked in the mirror and seen my hair falling out, I couldn’t deny what was happening to me anymore.
The treatment was tough and continues to impact my life. I went through six rounds of chemotherapy; 20 sessions of radiotherapy and I am still on hormonal treatment that has put me into temporary early menopause for the next five years.”
Searching for support
Sarah was in desperate need of support after a difficult time and wanted to find other younger women who were in a similar position when she came across the local cancer charity’s services.
““I was so relieved to find out about Cancer Focus Northern Ireland after I had finished my treatment. I was searching for support for cancer survivors, particularly other young women and I found out about Thrive, a support group for young women who have been diagnosed with breast cancer. It was exactly what I was looking for.
Family can only help support you to a certain point. Having other women who knew exactly what I was going through was priceless. We bonded so quickly, and our time together was incredibly empowering. We were all at different stages in our cancer journey, and some of the women had been through my treatment and could give me insight on what to expect and how to prepare.”
Sarah highlights the importance of not only the retreat and space for reflection and connection that Cancer Focus NI offer, but that even after it’s finished, the support continues.
“We are still all in a WhatsApp group together and we continue to be a source of support for each other. If you have a scare, they are one message away with words of encouragement and comfort, sharing your fears and helping you along the way.
I can’t thank Cancer Focus NI enough for providing me with this life changing support and I continue to feel the benefits from reaching out to Cancer Focus NI during one of the most difficult times in my life.
Despite all of the difficulties and obstacles that the Downpatrick native has faced, her positivity has carried her through, and she notes a highlight that comes to mind throughout the past year.
““I met my partner in April and then I was diagnosed in May. It was so early in our relationship that the cancer diagnosis happened, but he was there for me every step of the way and we have grown together. It has been the silver lining throughout my cancer journey.”
